Myspace - Good or Evil? - Comments Page 4

Your posts are interesting! I am 23, and i agree with what you all are saying about myspace being a double edged sword. On the one hand, it's a fabulous and amazing tool for connecting with people, on the other hand, it has being seriously abused by trashy pictures & profiles, hacking & spam, and people publicizing every detail of their lives for the world to see. (What happened to a little privacy and dignity?) But it's not hard to see why since about 2/3rds of the US is on myspace now, it's attracts all kinds.Just like any interent communication, it has the power to make your relations feel more personal and impersonal at the same time. Like some above me said, what happened to just going to a friend's house or writing a snail mail letter? I don't like how the various features have becomes abused (like public comments being used for personal conversations instead of the private email messages.) I have a myspace but it's private. But even with my small network of friends the petty attention-getting and drama is making me wanna stay away sometimes. I have a friend who's my age on there and she regularary send out quizzes (in the public bulletin section!) with literally hundreds of questions combined telling really personal and insignificant information. One of the questions she answered was the last four digits of her cell phone number. If that slips into the wrong hands somebody could easily figure out her area code then..bingo!..figure out the other 3 digits. It's so dangerous! Other people on my friends list do the same thing. I'm not trying to bad mouth my own friends, it's just that what they're doing is so dangerous and stupid. With the info and pictures on their profiles, a stalker could track them down just like that. You could find about any one person: dozens of pictures, personal conversations,boyfriends/girlfriends, make of car, workplace, schools, physical description, mood, and whereabouts within 5 MINUTES of looking at their profile. I would just hate to see them get hurt from something so easily preventable. I have learned one thing from the myspace experience tho....most people who are mindful of their own dignity and safety usually have private or mostly blank profiles, or they simple AREN'T ON THERE AT ALL. Myspace can be a blast as long as you put in generic information and play safe! I am not a parent yet, but i hope this gives some of the parents a heads up to what might really be going on behind it's doors! The best approach is the educate your children about net safety!

noooo you people are so stupid myspace is not a networking place well no it is but its more than that its a way to freely express who you are i mean im emo and without myspace no one would know that and i cut and without myspace no one would know that and i have excellent friends on myspace its a great thing now no lol to be honest it's not perfect however what in this world today is?? I mean look around you homless, abortions,murders,gangs....COME ON myspace is the absolute least of our worries right now instead of focusing on a website that "kills people" let's focus on the real problems that we face today and not only us but our futures you people are pathetic I mean seriously making such a huge controversy over a website and video games come on now THOSE DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO MAKE THIS PLACE WORSE...quit blaming society's problems on everything else. Do adults not tell their children to take responsibility for their actions then you go around and say that today's problems aren't your fault their a computer generated program's

I mean let's think this through

Hello there! I am a 9 year-old girl. I know that for Myspace you have to be 13. I am wise, and I don't go to dangerous and stupid websites. But as a 9 year old girl, I'm into cool websites like blogger, xanga, stardoll, but I stay out of trouble. I'm computer smart, but I would like to know if myspace would be bad for me. My sisters are in college, so they protect me, but they suggest websites to me. Please respond, PLEASE! So, shod I sign up for Myspace?

EDITOR'S NOTE: If you really are a 9-year-old, then NO, you shouldn't. There are good reasons for staying away from certain things until you're older.

hello, im 16 and doing research for my debating scociety about the dangers of networking and found this all to be very interesting. firstly, a word to "A very angry parent" by not giving your daughter any freedom to do what she wants you seem to be restricting her freedom. the same happened to several good friends of myself, like a theoretical party balloon, you squeeze and squeeze until, POP! it explodes, your not allowing your daughter to discover the world on her own and are forcing your own belifes of what is right and what is wrong. this is never the case outside your house. nothing is ever GOOD or EVIL, the grey areas inbetween are what she will encounter, not set restriction upon falsified morals. by attempting to quash her expression, the spark of rebellion flickers into a bonfire of hate. what is to say that your daughter is safe from the other supposed horros of the internet? it takes 3 clicks of a mouse and a scroll wheel to say your 29 born on the 3rd of august to acess a pronographic site. if you realy cared about your daughter you should allow her to find things out for herself and make her own desicions on what is good and bad for herself, with exemptions such as going to the dentist obviously. To quote Publilius Syrus, There are some remedies worse than the disease. T assume you dont want her to turn into a punk-goth with more chains and nails that somthing more akin to a small ship rather than a daughter. The vast majority of people on myspace have not killed themselfs im pleased to report, however the minority of which you are so afraid often already have somthing wrong with them before they go to myspace and there are websites out there that try to help with people who have bi-polar disorder and depression.

i hopes this will be some use to the discussion here.

omd i like totally read an article the other day sayin dat myspace is like super super bad sooo like i think its like super bad now yup yup its a true story = b

Myspace isn't a bad thing. It doesn't get people in trouble, or cause any drama; however, the people on it do. It's not a website that causes all of the drama, it's the people. Being a 15-year old girl and a lover of myspace, I think it's not the site we should be worried about. It's the people that are the causes of this.

think about it .
It's your decision who you add or talk to on myspace. Stay away form the people who may be a threat, and you're fine. All you have to do is change your settings to where your profile & pictures are private and you are fine.

I don't see what the commotion is. It's a website. If you're so worried about people finding your child and molesting them, you should keep an eye out on where they go and who they hang out with. You should be less focused on the internet and more focused on their surroundings and their friends.

idk wat some of you people are saying, but myspace isn't bad if its on private mode. ya, but some people could be a threat and stuuf, but if you leave it on private mode, you won't even be able to talk to pple that you don't know... my advice is to just put it on private... and then itsss finneee